Jerry is the manager of a restaurant in America. He
/ g# N2 l4 t) `. X3 D* his always in a * J' u4 @. x5 W5 o, t
good mood and always has something positive to say.! t1 E6 X7 z+ [5 e
When someone would ask / h5 m l7 Q% x/ Y9 z
him how he was doing, he would always reply, "If I! k! T3 G) ?" `9 ~( a* S
were any better, I 1 ~ h2 c: _. E* Y) }: d
would be twins!"
- I1 r/ }' @/ z; U( ] ?Many of the waiters at his restaurant quit their jobs* C& M. Q# t+ o- d
when he changed ( k# w7 v$ u/ ?
jobs, so they could follow him around from restaurant, o+ i# P$ q l1 G: X, w* z1 y
to restaurant. ; W% d9 H. E4 q* `* k0 d
The reason the waiters followed Jerry was because of3 ?6 r, z3 W2 |9 N8 ?3 L
his attitude. 6 Q* @- Y9 v* K; p6 D1 ~0 S
He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having
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was always here, telling the employee how to look on
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of the situation.
4 e u, ~, K- i% SSeeing this style really made me curious, so one day I
0 A q4 f; ^; G. ~: X+ \8 i% kwent up to Jerry
$ [9 P1 Q; @. e$ t4 v! Eand asked him, "I don't get it!
+ W2 F) @, h! w. ~6 _) P1 q8 XNo one can be a positive person all of the time. How9 Y& \# Q) W9 w6 w; x! R
do you do it?" I& g# l' s8 a! I) V" D+ ] f8 q, M
Jerry replied,
5 r" Z2 C% m& Q( e- |. e& \# r"Each morning I wake up and say to myself, I have two
0 \% h/ d* C7 {7 H8 I/ u0 ichoices today. I & z: i* Q1 o) J
can choose to be in a good mood or I can choose to be
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6 [/ q/ T" H9 `6 S3 B2 X3 malways choose to be in a good mood. & c9 I% H* y7 J6 S2 e1 \
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Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a% Z/ M/ \# Z; w3 k) ^$ n7 V5 @+ J
victim or I can
5 @( \9 g1 [6 z5 d0 N- V% Dchoose to learn from it. I always choose to learn from
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- B. w+ z- \/ t3 Ksomeone comes to me complaining, I can choose to
) d3 u6 g0 u' ^ Y2 Eaccept their
$ m3 T5 Y ]& ^! H$ Ocomplaining or I can point out the positive side of
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choose the positive side of life." / {, V( J+ f1 w+ e
"But it's not always that easy," I protested. & D I) O7 L; D/ \
"Yes, it is," Jerry said "Life is all about choices.
0 Q8 k. R4 M- g1 uWhen you cut away all the junk, every situation is a
% i2 h* q; g" f, p3 c2 C2 C: gchoice. You choose
# q- I9 }1 Y, X/ l7 l7 N$ ~9 K1 r: Phow you react to situations. You choose how people
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mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood.2 D5 f; x2 g- m" Z9 j( `, s( `
It's your choice how $ R1 T' h# X+ S+ I, i. F
you live your life."
! ? M/ j- v# q6 r% m/ k; |Several years later, I heard that Jerry accidentally
4 a8 ~# {- Q) C# w: a' W* pdid something you are never supposed to do in the
5 A6 S5 _9 ]7 n) v6 d; b" H9 Prestaurant business: left the back door of his
7 i- g) C7 V) M# {# g; U& erestaurant open one morning and was robbed by three $ y, b/ Q( ?) z3 L0 f1 [
armed men. While trying to open the safe, his hand,
9 u; @0 h8 J; z% \! qshaking from nervousness slipped off the 4 N" r3 ^- o# O, H2 Q
combination. The robbers panicked and shot him. & Z8 y6 \4 F( B' [- t
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- Y/ F( m: D4 X0 b; iLuckily, Jerry was found quickly and rushed to the 5 M2 w$ b; u/ ~; O- T
hospital. After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of
8 F; }0 V) W* w+ Wintensive care, Jerry was released from the hospital
) K2 E. @$ v1 _+ F0 n) Twith fragments of the bullets still in his body.
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I saw Jerry about six months after the accident.
3 E g4 ?# G. \# G4 w& v' _# A9 jWhen I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were
8 @+ E+ O9 S/ c Qany better, I'd be twins. / S1 a# K8 `% u: Z2 F
3 A# o) V) q, ]) KWant to see my scars?" I declined to see his wounds,
5 ~9 I) M$ A( j7 K) ubut did ask him what had gone through his mind as % _4 B. C8 w8 x( x ?
the robbery took place.
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$ \1 p* v a6 v2 ?; ?3 W"The first thing that went through my mind was that
- j! @+ I. i3 h3 a8 f! KI should have locked the back door," Jerry replied. ! W$ q8 E9 `6 ]" [) P! _. m
"Then, after they shot me, as I lay on the floor, I 4 ^1 ^1 z( y* S( X- d
remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to
0 B' r( {% {3 olive or choose to die. I chose to live." * y: Y7 Z$ k& z* Z y: a& \
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"Weren't you scared?" I asked. Jerry continued, "The * ?: t$ i/ ?/ k) x1 m
paramedics were great. They kept telling me. I was - y) k5 I4 }9 G! P
going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the 3 Z* O8 z' W/ F/ V( R
Emergency Room and I saw the expressions on the 3 E" z) `, S6 c& s
faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really 7 o* J9 {; o( T( E) K S- _
scared. In their eyes, I read 'He's a dead man.' I
- z* ~# R' y& \/ X) T" [8 [( {knew I needed to take action."
9 r( i/ b: ?0 o$ F( A h: H"What did you do?" I asked. "Well, there was a big
; j$ Y _" n' g1 F: inurse shouting questions at me," said Jerry. "She
- m% t3 b# S I# S8 h+ Rasked if I was allergic to anything." }; P0 @2 `9 ?; k' ^/ j* X
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'Yes,' I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped x9 l& M n$ g1 o
working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep % x6 J+ G1 }* {2 m2 X
breath and yelled, 'Bullets!' Over their laughter, I2 \5 u p6 d3 G( f" R. p
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told them, 'I am choosing to live. Please operate on 3 |- D) P' r6 t2 {: \4 b9 V
me as if I am alive, not dead'."
8 \: e" v( g: C9 N) z( `7 fJerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but & d1 @# ^! U0 i, L1 W& Q
also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from & P. x: ^: m( X. E d6 M
him that every day you have the choice to either 3 M3 P2 E, P% f
enjoy your life or to hate it. c% s* b& r- p
The only thing that is truly yours that no one can
5 U7 H1 t) r. `1 n# d) d1 Y0 E$ c: Dcontrol or take from you-is your attitude, so if you 8 K; d! \4 Y4 l% h. J
can take care of that, everything else in life
3 b$ z, A: t; jbecomes much easier.
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$ C* I3 K1 X1 V, h' M1. You can just close the browser now OR * j! \9 G( |$ S* r; v4 [/ P
5 k: Z) a, |: M" c2. You can forward it to someone you care about. 2 I+ E( L& O$ V# D8 g* X
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